Life as a single mom - March 28, 2006

Tim is away again in Adelaide. This is proving to be a challenge for me because I rely on him too much for my technology needs. I want to post some photos tonight but it took me about an hour to find the cord that connects the camera to the computer. Then, I realized I had to charge the battery. Find charger...but the charger has an American plug on it. Hmmm. There are two big plastic tubs full of various computer cables, tv wires, transformers and other mystery items. I found a plug adapter, but then saw it was for British plugs. Finally, I have the battery plugged into some American transformer, into a British extension cord, into a plug adapter, into the wall. If the house doesn't burn down first, I may be able to download photos later. Provided of course, that I can remember how to do that.

We were all set to put in a new light to replace the cherub, despite everyone writing in to say "Keep the light", when we discovered it is illegal for Tim to put in a light fixture. Apparently only a qualified electrician can change plugs or fixtures. They are on 240 v I think. Same as the UK, but different to the US. The Australian government doesn't think the average person is up to changing a fixture without electrocuting himself (or in the case of single mom...herself). We'll keep you up to date on the lighting developments - the new light is now in a box on the floor.

Other challenges this week have been learning how to turn on the TV and the DVD. That only took one frantic phone call to Tim. Happily, Elliott and I can watch the Simpsons after only one false start.

We have builders working on a wall in the back yard which means our pool is still a mess. I was ever so hopeful they had almost finished, but alas, it was not to be. I learned today about a drain and second wall. The wall is a beautiful stone wall - each stone lovingly cut and caressed before being put in place by a minimum of 3 workmen. I was told on March 13 they had 2 more days of work. So today, when he told me they would be finished in one more day, I have to admit I was skeptical.

As you can tell, not much in the way of interesting excursions. We did go to Lone Pine Sanctuary and saw the cutest kangaroo with a joey in her pouch. I went to take the picture, but had left the camera battery at home. See how this technology is haunting me? Luckily, we are only 10 minutes from this park and will go back this week to try to find that kangaroo.

Wow - check me out! Only 10 minutes on the phone with Tim and I'm up and running. Photo of pool and wall as discussed. The other photo is a shot of the Central Business District of Brisbane as seen from my neighborhood.

Life of Serial Ex-Pat - 20 March 2006

First off: Thanks to all those who have sent me a personal e-mail, e-card or card. It's nice to hear from everyone and I'll try to do a personal reply as I get time. I appreciate hearing from all of you.

Our week has been spent just sorting out the house and unpacking boxes. This makes our 10th move in 18 years. We thought we had really pared down all our stuff in the UK, but it was a surprize to see 80 boxes show up! We have now bought all new furniture. Next time we move, all of it will go with us. I can't bear the thought of doing this from scratch again. My photo of the week is the lamp hanging in our bedroom. I had to take two photos - just to be sure you could see the cherub close up. The things you see in a rental property. We are thinking about getting a new fixture, but this one might be just tacky enough to classify as "kitch." Use the comment box to weigh in with your opinion - keep the light or no?


We have a lot of things to have done to the house before we'll feel settled in. Tim went away for a few days last week. To show how desperate things got: I learned how to start the Air Conditioning and I set the clock on the microwave. The plumber came today and put in all new faucets. They are still working on a retaining wall in the garden and all the screens need changing. We discovered Bunnings Hardward store (like Home Deport or B&Q). All good Aussie men spend lots of time at Bunnings. Elliott didn't want to go, but I told him it would make a man out of him. The Australians seem to like their do-it-yourself projects. If you haven't seen the movie "The Castle", it's worth a look. It is a classic they show once a year about the little guy (who loves his home repair) fighting the big corporate powers...

No large animal sightings here this week. But we are learning to live with all sorts of other small things in our house. We have realized ants love it here. I'm starting to think of them as my new pets. The other thing we have come to learn is how cockroaches love the climate in Brisbane. There are 428 different species of Cockroach in Australia. We have at least two types in our house - the German Cockroach and the American Cockroach. Cockroaches are so pervasive in Queensland - they are a state mascot like the koala or the kangaroo. On Australia Day in January, they have cockroach races downtown. (Elliott wouldn't go because he thought it was inhumane.) So far I have managed to squish the small ones, but I haven't worked up the courage to smash a big one. That splat really puts me off.

We'll have to do something interesting this weekend so I'll something to write about!

Christmas Day...3 months later

WOW! and I mean WOW - World of Warcraft. We are in our new house now. Who cares if the faucets drip, the screens are ripped, boxes need unpacking? Not us. We are now wireless and broadband equipped. The moment we have been waiting for - for the past 3 months. Now Elliott and I can play our on line game together. We only have to learn how to share the loot without coming to blows and we'll be all set. Look for us in Sen'Jin Village next time you're out.

I've got Tim home to help with some photo technology. We'll give it a try to republish with some pictures. I think I've got the comments thing going, but please try it out.

March 15, 2006

It's hard to know where to start...This is my third try to create a blog that I can actually manage. They say third time lucky. Things are moving along so fast here. I knew I had to get this up and running or forever lose the will to start.

As for personal stuff...

Tim is still so busy. He's been away for weeks at a time. He hasn't really had a chance to settle in because he's always on the road. We hope after a few months, he'll get into some routine.

Elliott is doing great. He changed classes at school and is really enjoying it now. He loves the shorter hours and no Saturday School! We did have a trip to the hospital with infected mosquito bites, but he's recovered now. We were worried about sharks, but clearly mosquitos have proved more dangerous.

Susan (me) is fine. I'm keeping busy doing some volunteer work at school in the uniform shop and the "Tuck Shop" (cafeteria). Elliott goes thru the line and pretends not to know me! I'm playing tennis twice a week. I've changed my grip and I'm sure that will be the making of me. I have taken up on line computer games and have become totally obsessed. World of Warcraft is surprisingly addictive. I am currently a level 11 Druid, but I may have to change characters to play what Elliott would like. The sacrifices a mother has to make! Other than that, I've been unpacking boxes.

We moved into our house on the 13th of March. It is a lovely house with lots of space and a pool. We didn't find a place within walking distance of school, but I guess you can't have everything. We have lots of space for visitors and did buy extra beds. We still need more furniture, but have run out of enthusiam for the task. In our last house, we needed a bedside table for 5 years. I don't expect this house to be any different.

As for fun stuff - the reason we moved to Australia...We bought body boards and have been "surfing" a few times. The ocean is great - big waves and strong current. We hope that it stays nice a bit longer this fall and we get some more time to go to the beach. We had so much fun there that we almost forgot about the sharks.

Last Sunday, we went on a boat cruise up the Brisbane River to see a bat colony. At dusk, the fruit bats all fly out to search for food. It was in impressive sight. There were over 100,000 bats in this colony. One interesting fact: bat poo is so acidic it will eat the paint off your car. We also saw two dolphins playing in the river. It was so beautiful with the sun setting and these dolphins playing in the wake of the boat. Elliott would like us to become bat carers and rescue baby orphan bats. The only drawback is we would all have to get the rabies shots before we could do it. Elliott is thinking about asking for the rabies shots for his birthday. I am hoping he will have forgotten this idea by May.

Well, that's all for now. My goal is to write a short note maybe once a week and learn how to do some pictures. But, really, at this point, I would happy if anyone is able to read this post at all. Here's hoping I can figure out how to navigate the site.

February 13, 2006

We have now been in Brisbane for almost 4 weeks. (Arrived January 13, 2006) I have quickly realized that I won't be able to keep up with everyone with e-mails and letters. It seems like once I write one letter, I'm exhausted at the thought of writing the same news in another letter. So, I have tried to figure out this new technology of the blog. This blog has adds on the site - so please let me know if they are excessively annoying. If I write a general blog, I think it will keep us going out to explore the area - or else I won't have anything to write about. Also, a public blog will keep us looking at the bright side of things because no one will read it if all I do is complain!

I have been reading "The Fatal Shore" by Robert Hughes. It's all about the first people to settle in Australia. I have to admit, our Quantas Business Class seats were a bit nicer than a year long boat trip in chains. I do relate to the feelings of the convicts of going somewhere very far away and the uncertainty of seeing our friends again. I think it would be different if we had owned a house in England and knew we'd be going back there. As it stands now, we really don't know where we'll go next. We can't really feel homesick because we don't really have a home. Maybe just feeling adrift. The date line and time zone are disconcerting ideas. We missed a day somewhere and I think I still miss it. As for the time zone, it's very hard to figure out what time it is in England and the US and then think about what day it is as well.

We do have a good first impression of Brisbane and Australia in general. It is very hot here and very humid. The sun is very strong - 2 out of 3 people in Queensland will get skin cancer. We have arrived in the middle of a draught - so there are some water restrictions for home owners. It has rained a bit since we've been here. It is still so warm you don't need a coat, even when it's raining. Queensland is a huge state - twice the size of Texas. There is so much to do and see - we could spend 2 years here and never exhaust the possibilities in this state alone. Brisbane is very sprawling. You quickly settle in to your own patch and don't ever need to leave to the far reaching suburbs. There are alot of buses, trains and even a cool water bus.

Everyone kept telling us about all the ways we would be killed in Australia. Crocodiles, red back spiders, snakes...The first week we were here, a woman was eaten by a shark off the shore in Brisbane and a girl was killed by a jelly fish just north of here. More amusing tales have appeared in the paper - a young man broke his leg while trying to stomp on a huntsman spider (non-venomous). And this one I love - a grandmother was doing her knitting while watching the Australian Open tennis on TV. (This is inside her living room...) and she gets bit by a poisonous 1.5 meter long brown snake. Luckily, it didn't get the fangs in all the way before she brushed it off and moved to another chair. Gotta like that story. The sharks are a bit off putting I must admit. I have heard of Triathlons that advertise how safe they are because they use helicopters to patrol for sharks as you do your open water swim. I think has made me realize tennis is so much more suitable. We have realized our success in Australia will depend more on the wild life we hope not to see, as opposed to great wild life sightings.

As for personal stuff, we found a house to rent. It won't be available until March 13 or so. So we are still in a two bed apartment. It has a kitchen and a pool - so we can't really complain. Elliott isn't thrilled with school so far, but we hope to get things more settled within a few weeks. They need to assess everything and determine what class Elliott needs to be in. He is also missing having broadband computer access. We are desperate to start playing World of Warcraft. Tim is very busy at work. He doesn't yet know if he's coming or going or just going in circles. I'm doing ok. I miss my friends, and of course, our dog Holly. I like my little routine and need to start working to set one up.

The Super Bowl is just starting here - 9 am Monday morning. I haven't watched it in 12 years, but feel tempted today. The other families here from Boeing are all from Seattle. Something tells me the guys aren't getting much work done.